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No sex for weeks-no presents, no romantic dates..I'm thinking of leaving him. Any advice?

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Question - (10 January 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 January 2006)
A female , *onelylover writes:

I think the time has come that I should leave my boyfriend. I go two maybe 3 weeks each time before sex each time. Even when it does happen he can't orgasam and pleads its not me. No dates, I am tired of being alone. 9 months of not a single date. no christmas or b-day present. I may be a strong woman to put up with what I have. If i am chosing the wrong decision tell me,ladies. And there has never been any other girl. I am certain we have lived together and may that be the reason that it has come to this then its all my fault and never move in with your lover, never.

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A female reader, msxcarlett +, writes (10 January 2006):

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2006):

If your not happy your not happy which will make him not happy so your best bet is to sit and tell him how serious it i that thngs need to change or you will be packing. He should be giving you gifts and trying to please you in anyway and you the same for him that's how relationships work if he's not pulling his weight then maybe you do need to take a break from him maybe then he'll realize how he has been and how the little things count. Good luck chicky

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A female reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx United Kingdom +, writes (10 January 2006):

xxxsoulsistaxxx agony auntThe fact that you've written this at all makes me think it is time for you to move on. Life is too short to waste any time being unhappy and there's so many great people out there you've still to meet.

Maybe you rushed into things, maybe it just wasn't meant to be. But it's d-day, either he sorts himself out and starts treating you like a real girlfriend or he loses you. There's so many guys out there who'd be willing to treat you the way you want to be treated.

I know it can be hard to leave someone after so long but you have to break free and be happy again. Hope this has helped, be strong and good luck

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