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writes:So i hung out with an ex boyfriend over the weekend and we had a great time. he says he still has love for me. I know he cares. anyway i texted him saying i had a nice time w/you and it made me happy to hang out with you. maby i'm analyzing it too much but i figured he would say he had a nice time too. Nothing. So am i setting myself up? by him not responding should i take a hint? why does he want to continue to be in my life if he only wants me when its a gd time for him. why would he spend money on me take me out to eat buy drinks and spend time with me if he didn't care? HELP!!!
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reader, Boombadaboom  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 Shouldn't give that much importance to a text message. You're overreacting over it. It's quite possible he never got it or whatever or he just liked it but didn't think of texting back or he's nervous about what to say. Go with what the actual time together has told you. His mouth says a lot more than his thumbs so wait a few days and maybe call him. If he doesn't pick up, please don't think too much of it. So many things are possible. Just continue with your usual life and forget about him for a while if that's how it goes. Just don't be worried for no reason. He liked you during the weekend? Great, fine!! He still likes you now. If the text was okay then he has no reason not to like you all of a sudden. After all, you might even be a better person than him so you wouldn't lose anything if that's the case. Just try calling him in a few days and then move on. Don't beat yourself up. Everyone is more beautiful without all those bad feelings.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 That's why you always call instead of text so you don't have to keep telling yourself that he's probably just busy. Now that you know the love is still there, you have to know where you stand next time you see him, if there's a next time.
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