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writes:I really don't know where to start. I've been working with this guy for over a year. First he started as a bartender and a couple of months later,he was my new manager. I've always been attracted to him and we've been out for coffee a couple of times. Now last night he was out with his friends and called me, drunk,and wanted to know if he could spend the night at my house since his friends didnt want to take him home. Long story short, we slept together. Today will be my first day seeing him. I really dont know if I should talk to him about it or just pretend nothing happend?Help!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007): What did he say to you the next morning, after sleeping with you, before he left? I think if he left your place, leaving you dazed, confused and wondering where this is going next, I think this may be your answer. I suppose I find it hard to believe that he was SO blindly drunk, he'd forget what you and he shared. Most guys are totally unfunctional, when they are 'that' drunk! Hate to say this, but if he 'pretends nothing happened' and ignores you at work..then you may have your answer as to what to do. This will mean..disengaging your feelings and drop the hopes of having a relationship with this guy. It will mean he's not interested. You then move on and do your job. Remain professional and strike this up to a 'life learning experience' and let it go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007): I agree with DJ in the part where you should let him make a move to make it something more. But I don't see why you couldn't just say hi to him. But keep it short. And let him initiate the rest.
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (11 August 2007):
 As a woman, I think your prerogative is to pretend like nothing happened. As a man, if he is more interested than a fling, then it's up to him to make a move to make it something more. The question you should be asking is if he does approach you, what do you want to say then?
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (11 August 2007):
 Just play it cool and ask him if he has recovered from last night yet and see what his responce to that is.
Take care.xx.
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