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Slept with a lad but now he's acting all stoopid...

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Question - (7 January 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 January 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I had sex with a lad and afterwards he was ok. he told one person and he changed. he became horrible as if he was in denial, then when no ones looking or watching, he flirts with me and starts touching me up. i don't understand. straight after when people are around he is horrible again and calls me hurtful names and tries to wind me up.

the other day he grabbed my hand under the duvet when people were around and the light was off and took it over to my best friends leg(girl)thinking that it was his. i didn't know it was hers until afterwards when he starts to call me a dike!

i dont know what to do, i love him, i really need help on how to deal with this. please help me.

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A female reader, mystify +, writes (9 January 2006):

mystify agony auntit sounds like he is pretty young , i would guess he is into you but still is in the stage of thinking that "talking to girls aint cool" so therefore need to wind you up to act "cool" , i think its best to steer cleer of him while he sending out all these confusing messages as he is not respecting you

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A female reader, mommyofthree +, writes (8 January 2006):

mommyofthree agony auntI am so sorry to hear that you are going through all of this. Unfortunately, some guys just act like idiots after they get what they want. I honestly believe that you need to try to stay away from this guy. He is going to continue to treat you poorly in front of people and you do not deserve that. Please tell him to stay away from you, do not go places that you know he will be, he will bring you down emotionally. Good luck.

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