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51-59,
anonymous
writes: Sleep without the sex? - Can someone explain to me why me and my boyfriend (both in our 30s - who have just started to spend the nights together)cannot innitiate sex?I do feel the relationship is a little one sided as I am madly in love with him and he is a little less interested - but when we are in bed we both seem either too shy or - in his case - too uninterested to start a bit of foreplay and so just end up cuddling!! What is happening here? We both have had previous partners so its not as if its new to us!!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): You said he's a less interested than you are - maybe he's not interested at all. Maybe he sees you just as a friend.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (7 April 2009):
Maybe he just doesn't want to make the first move and 'spook' you. He may want to but doesn't know hoe to intiate sex with you, he has had another partner but for you intiating sex is for him, he may not know exactly what you like or what gets you hot.
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