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writes: My sister tells me that I'm wrong for not ever speaking to my once best friend who not only used me but but broke trust with me. Telling me that I wasn't one of her real friends, like the people she hangs with and the people who she hang with only use her for what they can get from her. Trying to be there for her after she had her kid, when her own baby dad didn't want anything to do with her, I would sit up at night knowing I had school in the morning talking to her on the phone because she had no one else to talk to, or giving her money when she was broke because her mom would make he pay high rent for staying at home. I looked out for this chick like she was my own sister we grew up together from the time we were 6. Now it's been years from the last time she and I spoke and my sister says that I should move on and say I'm sorry for what happened. I didn't do anything and if anyone should apologize it should be her and her mother, who is jealous of me because I strive to be something. But in the long run she knows that I was the best friend that she will ever have. Would any of yall ever be friends again with someone like this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice.
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reader, meg21uk +, writes (9 April 2006):
this girl obviously took from you what she should get and I think you made the right decision in ending the friendship.
If anyone should be apologising it's her and if she hasn't then it says a lot about her as a friend any way.
you need to tell your sister that while you respect her opinion she also needs to respect yours.
Its great that you have ambition don't let antone stop you from bettering yourself.
Hope that helps
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