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writes: I am 20 and my girlfriend is 21.Recently she has been suggesting to me that we should have a threesome; she has said she wants to see me kissing and getting intimate with another man.I asked her why, and she said to me that she thinks most men like seeing two women 'getting it on with one another' and she also said shouldn't women have fun too?I told her I have never ever had any desires to see two women kissing or even to have a threesome, but she doesn't believe me. I also said I respect her needs sexually, but this was going too far, I told her. She kept on trying to convince me it was the best thing for our relationship. I also told her threesomes damage relationships.Yet, away from the bedroom, we get on so well; how do I deal with this issue?It's causing me stress, worry and upset. I would appreciate support from people, thanks.Jonathan in Wigan, Greater Manchester
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (9 April 2006):
 i agree with tux, you shouldn't have to do anything you don't feel comfortable with. you girlfriend should respect the fact that you don't wish two share her and that you believe that the threesome wil damage your relationship in the long run.
you should really sit her down out side the bedroom and talk to her seriously about this because if you feel strongly about no wanting a threesome you need to get that across to her.
(I being proved more and more that it is a womans world out there)
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reader, tux  +, writes (9 April 2006):
 You shouldnt have to do anything you are uncomfortable with just as well as she shouldn't have to do anything she is unconfortable with. If she doesn't like it, then she's with the wrong guy.
I don't understand the infatuation with guy in seeing 2 girls kissing and I could care less to see it or not. though I am more creeped out seeing 2 guys kissing. but either way, i wouldn't want to see my gf kissing another guy or girl as I would hope she wouldnt want to see me kiss another guy or girl. I'm not good with sharing :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2006): I agree: threesomes damage relationships. Don't do it.. especially if you're not comfortable with it. It can only end badly.
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