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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I don't know what to do....There is this man that I've been dating for only a few months, before this we where friends with benefits for almost a year and always wanted more than friends with benefits and now we're both together and i thought i'd be happy but it seems that whenever i get a boy that i want i get over them and it's like the chase is better than the catch.based on this i would think i should break up with him like i have done with many others but like the others i usually want them back and i know for sure that i will want this man back if i broke up with my boyfriend. Breaking up with him would more than likely destroy or friendship as well and i want to be his friend and girlfriend but i can't help but feel like i don't want him anymore but i know i do want and need him when i think deeply about it.What should i do and how the hell do i work all this out.I can't talk to my close friends because they've been there for the entire friends with benefits drama and while they get along with my boyfriend they have always thought he will hurt me if i get too involved like i have and if i talk to them they'll probably want me to break up with him and i don't want to...... but in a way i feel bored of him but i still love him and enjoy having sex with him so i'm confused.please help.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (8 April 2008):
 Hi
Sounds like you're not yet ready to 'settle down' thats all. But a part of you wants to, and you panic a bit when you split with them. Its ok to be single and learn about yourself before getting with someone full time.
The fact you feel bored when you are with them properly, indicates this.
C xxxxx
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