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writes:ok im actualy 14 but i ticked the box wrong by mistake. The problem: my dad has let me go out with boys in the past but yesterday when i told him about my new boyfriend he said he doesn't look your age, and even when i told him he still wouldn't belive me? then in the evening he told me to dump him and said he doesn't want me going out with any boys until i leave school, but he has never had a problem befor. this mde me really upset because my current boyfriend i really loved and i don't see what my dads problem is? what should i do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyhoo for the help i asked my dad if h could come out with us and they got on really well he made a good impression !!! so thank yhoo for all your amazin help
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reader, FighterNoLover  +, writes (16 April 2007):
 i had the same problem when i was 14
but actually my dad liked my boyfriend
mayb you should try becoming realli close to this boy like yur best friend and mayb when you guys doo try to make his parents like youu so if anythiiing both of your parents would be cool and they would actually be able to belive hes your age thats the only thing i can think of right now cause i was like best friends with my bf so our parents were cool too and they didnt have a problem with us being together they actually encouraged it...
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reader, Mystic Moo +, writes (15 April 2007):
 He's probably worried about you. Over-protectiveness is common in parents, especially fathers. I've heard in the past that dads don't want their 'little girls' to grow up too fast (or at all!) and knowing that you have a boyfriend has made him realise that you're not a baby anymore.
He probably let you go out with boys in the past knowing that you were younger and it wouldn't have lasted and now you are 14 it might last.
Maybe your boyfriend looks old for his age and your dad might think he's going to take advantage of you.
You could either convince your dad to give this boy a chance or if that fails then say you've dumped him but don't dump him if you don't want. You don't need him to know everything. Good luck.
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