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*yra Anna
writes:I`m in a relationship about two months and I`m really happy with my boyfriend. He is the first guy I ever let him to touch me or something like that. It`s not that I didn`t have anyone before him, but I think he is much special then my other dates. So, here`s the thing; I`d never have sex and I`d never been intimate with anyone. I`m shy person. That`s the main problem but I want to take our relationship to the next higher lever. I will be very pleased if somebody tell me how to satisfy guy (hand job, blow job), should I let him to fingering me if we`re only 2 months together? Or it`s soon for actions like that?
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (14 December 2009):
 Please note...h/b-job is real magic thing in sexual activity. It will certainly bring 'divinity' within you. But, to recognize this divine aspect, required intellectual maturity,as this divinity is very 'subtle' Please do not think it as second level, as it is the only one and last level, capable of leading you to the supreme height of pleasure.
Yes, there is intercourse, which is vaginal penetration by male's sex-organ. But, it is un-important from the stand point of 'pleasure'. but it is related with procreation, means to have children. But, you do not seems to want sex for children, but for pleasure.
You will learn everything about sex, only through this 'foreplay'...yes, be careful about the height of excitement, that should not be so high, that make you uncontrollable. Keep your wave of pleasure within your control. Is it enough?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): When is too soon? That depends on many different things. Age, culture, relationship, past experiences, etc. I don't think anyone can give you a perfect answer for that one.
If you want to do sexual things to him then just get comfortable with him. Don't feel like you need to "perform" or be judged about a good or bad job. If your relationship is good then you should be able to be honest with each other about whether this is a new experience. You should not feel ashamed to make a few mistakes as you learn things. Ask him to show you what he likes and go from there.
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reader, Iseone  +, writes (12 December 2009):
 If you want to take the relationship to the next level,its your idea,and sex is not boring and as such, u need foreplay which will include fingering, blowjob, necking etc.
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