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writes:should two married people have an affair if they have known eachother for a while, but sparks just started?
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reader, kenny  +, writes (17 February 2007):
 Just as the other to posts have stipulated, you alreay know the answer to this question.
An affair is a no go whether you have known them 20 years, or five minutes, regardless of sparks.
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reader, idoneitagain  +, writes (17 February 2007):
Just check your wedding vows - if your vows included the right to shag other people and you know your husband won't mind, then go for it. If not, you may not understand the terms or conditions of your marriage. Go back to marriage school.
In other words, the question you have asked you already know the answer to, it is not your real question. Ask a more accurate question for better advice.
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reader, Carina  +, writes (17 February 2007):
 What do you think the answer should be...honestly? It has to be no, doesn't it? If even one person is married it causes terrible complications and heartache for the people concerned and with two married people there are even more affected, especially if there are children involved. I know it's very tempting when the spark is there, but remember that sometimes forbidden fruit seems that bit tastier. In reality the spark wears off after a while and you're left with an emotional mess. Someone is likely to get badly hurt. I would get out of this situation as quickly as possible and look around at what you already have and all the good things about that. Be strong!
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reader, SUE7 +, writes (17 February 2007):
NO NO!!
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