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writes:my fiance and I had a mishap and might be having an unexpected child. (we don't know for sure yet... it just happened a few days ago)but we were talking about our possible options, and I told him my plan for continuing school at a school closer to home so I can commute and continue working.My problem is that he says his only option to be able to support us is to join the military, under active duty. I am scared enough about the prospect of a possible child, how am I supposed to handle him enlisting as well. He tells me it is the only way her can fully provide for me and the baby... is this really the case? are there other options to be able to get good health care AND enough money?I can't lose him. I'm terrified that if he leaves for the military he will never come home again and all I will have left is a folded up flag. what do I do?? HELP!
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reader, bunny2012 +, writes (13 June 2010):
let him go. you will be able to take care of your child and give the baby someone to look up to. it is a good decision. my boyfriend is in the Airforce and everything is going great. everything will be ok.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionas I said before, this did only happen a few days ago, so we have a few weeks to wait. I am not concerned about being pregnant, as I have options. My concern is that my fiance feels that the need is his only option. Please do not lecture me on contraceptives or tell me I need an abortion, because that is not an option, and don't be telling to go buy a pregnancy test because that is NOT what I am asking.
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