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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Ok this young female coworker that I work with, we came into the job together so we are classmates if you want to call us that. From the first day we worked together she asked me to rub her feet (didn't do it). We hung out a couple times but she wants to go far out to places no one would see us and she doesn't want anyone to know that we hang out and I don't tell my business. She calls me before work and sometimes on our days off. This young chick has no filters she tells me what positions make her orgasm, what she does during sex, she even asked me did I have any personal sex tapes on my phone and she wanted to see one. I'm thinking she's an attention whore, some say she's a freak. What angle should I use if I want to have sex with her without getting her mad at me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2019): Gosh OP, I wonder how your, classmate, with zero class, just happened to get your phone number? If your plan is to try to have sex, on the down low, with what you said is an attention whore, you should probably resign now, in order to save the company all of the fuss of sacking you, because she is going to have video evidence, on her own phone, of your truly tasteless fraternization, together! One other thing OP, a woman with no filters, is going to tell everything she knows, and hears! This woman, is most likely not, the road less traveled, so who knows what STDs and STIs lurk in her depths? I hope you see the folly of your scheme!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2019): You seem old enough to know when you're being propositioned; and you also know what the consequences could be, if there's a sexual-harassment case formed against you! Didn't you know sometimes it's a setup? When it comes down to he-said/she said...who do you think they'd believe first?
Look how raunchy and bold she's coming-on to you. You've been targeted like a the weakest antelope in the herd. You pay her too much attention; and to her, you look dumb enough to be an easy-target. Ever wonder, why you in-particular?
Why did you have to write a post and ask such a question???
Think with your head and not your penis. It's sexual-harassment as defined in any sense! It's up to you to walk through that door; but you have no idea what's on the other side of it! Things go wrong, and you're the one with a penis, stronger; and statistically, males are more likely to harass females on the job! It could be major coin for her in a lawsuit!
This has trouble written all over it!!! What do they tell you to do at sexual-harassment seminars? In the U.S., it is federally-required by employers with a certain number of employees to have these work-ethics seminars. Your employer is also required to issue an ethics and conduct manual; clearly explaining what their rules and policies are. Specifically in this area! If it seems too easy, or too good to be true! That should trigger alarms, my good-man!!! BIG-TIME!!!
There is no way you can guarantee someone who behaves like that won't turn on you! That unpredictability is warning in itself!!! Hey, how about herpes and HIV! Who comes on that strong and cares about their self-respect and health? Even less about yours!
Go ahead...take the bait!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2019): How young? If you are 36-40 you shouldn't go near her unless she's at least in her late twenties. If she's younger than that then I don't care what she says, you're the creep for doing anythign about it. And even if she was your age, what the hell do you think would come of this situation if you slept with her? It would get all kinds of messy at work. Don't sh*t where you eat.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (27 December 2019):
 what you need to do is SHUT down conversations you are not wanting to have with a coworker.
So if she talks about sex, change the subject or tell her you know this isn't an appropriate subject.
It does sound like she has no filter and that she thinks she is still in high school where sexual "conquest" is something you talk to strangers with, and YES you are a stranger even if you started at the same time at work.
Personally? I'd distance myself from her. I wouldn't hang out with her either. It's not going to help your career being associated with this one. She isn't going to last long in any job.
As to WHY on EARTH you want to have sex with her when you KNOW this girl has no filter is BEYOND me.
Stop thinking with your dick.
YOU are there to work not think up schemes to screw a coworker.
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