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*abyblueeyes
writes:I have been seeing my current boyfriend for 2 months and I think we are really happy. We both have a lot in common in that we have been married before and have children. Things seem to be going really well apart from my trust issues. He went on holiday with his 8 year old daughter for a week and he has shown me the photographs, some of which have pictures of women on them, whom he met on an evening whilst drinking with groups of friends. I know I shouldnt have done but i looked through his phone and he and one of the girls have text each other asking if they each enjoyed their holiday and he has suggested he takes her for a drink if she is ever in the area.I dont know if I have something to worry about. Am I being paranoid? My husband left me for someone else and my last boyfriend was a cheat also. I would like to speak to my boyfriend about how i feel but cant confess to looking through his phone and dont want to scare him off. Help!!!! What should I do??
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reader, imrana  +, writes (7 September 2009):
I would admit to checking his phone. you should just ask him what the text is about. It would be better to let him know what you are worried about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): Well, he's already left you once for someone else in the past, so i think your entitled to ask him if he can be trusted, and if there's a chance he'll leave you again. Ask him, and if he tells you he can be trusted, ask him if there's any chance that he may have exchanged numbers with any other women while on holiday, and if he denies it, then there's your answer, he's a liar and can't be trusted.
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