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writes: I am so crazy about this boy and i have been getting so stressed out about it, i am thinking about just walking straight up to him, kiss him,and walking away. Is this a good idea. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): this is what i would do - get a very good mate to dare you to do it, then go up to him and kiss him. If it works out then well done! if not then say it was a dare from your friend
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2007): It sounds like you need to learn the art of flirting. There is no point in just kissing him out of the blue unless you are a really hot babe.
You need to empower yourself first and learn to flirt with him to get him interested first then see what happens once he is attracted to you.
There is so much bollocks written in books and dating sites about how to 'pull'. The best way is to hang out with female friends that are successful with pulling men and see what they do.
Good luck
Snow Leopard PUA
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reader, kenny +, writes (11 June 2007):
Yes like the other posts have said its probably a bad idea. Instead why don't you try to just make a friend out of him. Chat to him, find out things about him, his interests, hobbies ect. Then when you feel things are going well ask him if he fancies doing something one weekend.
Good luck x
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reader, sunrise +, writes (10 June 2007):
Hi, probably not a good idea, you may both end up feeling really embarrassed and not being able to look at each other again.
Why dont you try talking to him, hang around him and his mates and start up a frienship then who knows, he may become your boyfriend, but if he makes it obvious he doesn't want you to hang around with him and his mates, dont push it, you will soon find another boy that you really like. Just have fun and dont get your heart broke too young by getting too serious. lots of luck x
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 June 2007):
It's a bad idea. If you don't know whether he is the slightest bit interested, then it would only embarrass him as well as yourself. Unless a kiss is invited it would be harassment or even physical assault. Ease up Chickie and talk to the guy first.
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reader, JessIzFit +, writes (10 June 2007):
Heya hun,
Well firstly does he know how you feel about him ? If not i reckon you should tell him how you feel. Just kissing him might give him a bit of a shock if he isn't expecting it. Sit him down calmly and speak with words. Don't rush things or you may upset him. Things will look up for the best believe me, every1 will find a special person for their life. If you have found yours great hun, your on the right road. Go for it hun and I hope everything will be okay for you,
Luv ya
Louise
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2007): why not...take a chance in your life...
He'll know that your in control and your independant. He will probably lke the fact that you did take the chance!! and the first move! Just don't think about it suck it up and kiss him! Good luck!!=]
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2007): no
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