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writes:Hi everyone. So a couple days ago I reconnected with an old friend on Facebook. She is a year older than me and we haven't spoke since she graduated 12 years ago. We have both moved away from our home state but are still only a short distance away from each other. The thing is I have always really liked her and would still love to try to start something with her. We messaged each other for about 45 minutes the other night just catching up and before we went to bed we exchanged phone numbers. We are both single and I know it would be a long shot to try and start something but I am just curious as to how long I should wait to even try and contact her again. I do not want to come off as some creep that texts her a couple days later after no contact for 12 years. My bday is about a month away and I know hers is two days before mine. Should I just wait until then to say anything to her unless she contacts me first? I do not expect anything to happen immediately of course but I am willing to put the time and effort in to try and make something happen. She is a businesswomen who is concentrated on her career and I just don't want to come off to strong and scare her away. I know I should wait and I think her bday would be a good amount of time. Am I thinking correct? Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2013): Your not going to come off as a creep if you text her just don't text everyday or multiple times a day that's being annoying and creepy. If you want to wait till her birthday that will be fine as well, it will show her that you remembered. You should try texting her a couple days before her birthday to see how she's doing. You never know if she has been expecting a text from you. Good luck
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reader, R1  +, writes (18 February 2013):
 I don't think you should wait if you want to rebuild a friendship maybe more. Leave it a couple of days and message her again. If she doesn't want you too you will probably be able to tell, if your not sure just post another question up here.
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