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writes: hello everyone,i'm really in need for some help here. i made out with this guy at a party. it was great... and when we said goodbye he said "see you soon".i got his sweater and wanna use that as an excuse but don't know how tbh...any advice?thanks a lot Reply to this Question
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reader, porkchop.xo  +, writes (20 July 2008):
 If he hasn't contacted you about the sweater, he probably doesn't care. I had the same situation and the guy wanted to sweater back so he contacted me, he also wanted to see me again so it worked out. Just wait it out and if you don't hear anything, at least you get a big comfy sweater to lounge in :)
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (19 July 2008):
 Hi
I think Frank B kermit has the right plan there.
And use the sweater as an excuse, then test the water.
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2008): I wouldn't do that if I were you. If he didn't bother getting your phone number or anything, then I would take that as a sign that he just wasn't all that interested in pursuing you any further. But of course, its possible that he does intend to pursue you, and may, in fact, try to contact you somehow. But I would let HIM do the chasing. Men are very resourceful. If they really want to, they WILL find you and get in touch with you, somehow. Believe me.
One guy I ended up dating, I had met at a bar and he had accidently deleted my number after meeting me, and he had remembered I had told him where I worked and he went to my JOB a few days later to look for me so that he could get my phone number again!
Another guy I dated, we had met at a party at my house, we all got so wasted I ended up passing out and so never had the chance to give him my number. But unbeknownst to me, a friend of mine had called me from his phone earlier that night and he had purposely saved it in his history and he called the next day and asked me out.
And most recently I met a guy at a party last saturday night, and we were together all night. But I ended up passing out (yeah this seems to happen to me alot. hehe) and I left the party and we didn't exchange numbers. But a friend of his contacted me on myspace to let me know that they are having a party this Saturday night, hint, hint for me...
And in all these instances I felt just like you. I wanted to see them again just as bad as you want to see this guy. But you should never chase a guy, and if he's worth your time, you don't have to. All I am saying is that men are very very resourceful. If he wants to, he WILL most definitely try to find you and try to get to see you again. You don't have to do anything. So if he hasn't, I would leave it alone cause all it means is that he is not that interested. So let HIM do the chasing. And if he doesn't, he's not worth your time.
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (19 July 2008):
 Get his phone number from a mutual friend on the premise to return his sweater. Once you call him, set a date and time to meet with him again at a public place like a coffee shop, and once you get him there, start talking.
-Frank B Kermit
author of Everything Out Of HEr Mouth is a Test
www.franktalks.com
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (19 July 2008):
Get his phone number from a mutual friend on the premise to return his sweater. Once you call him, set a date and time to meet with him again at a public place like a coffee shop, and once you get him there, start talking.
-Frank B Kermit
author of Everything Out Of HEr Mouth is a Test
www.franktalks.com
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