A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hi there,I met an awesome guy at a party last night and I'm just looking for a bit of advice on what I should do next. At the party we chatted for a bit and then he walked me home when I'd had a little (a lot, oops) too much to drink. It was a really long walk from the party to my flat, and on the way we started kissing. He kept telling me how pretty I was and he kept joking around saying "I bet you wont call me tomorrow". When we got back to my flat, neither of us really wanted to say goodbye, so we got a taxi to his flat together, for "cuddles". He was adamant that he was a gentleman, and gave me a t-shirt to sleep in and turned around when I got changed. But one thing led to another and we ended up fooling around. We both obviously wanted to go further but I said I wasn't really comfortable having sex with him having only known him for a few hours, and he was cool with that. We messed around in the morning too and then I had to get up and go back to my flat. It really wasn't awkward in the morning and we chatted while he walked me to the bus stop. What I'm not sure about now is whether I should get in contact with him. He didn't explicitly give me his number, but I have a missed call from him because I lost my phone at the party and he called it for me. It seemed like he was keen to see me again, but I'm so out of practice in these things I could be way off. Any advice?
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (19 July 2008):
Get his phone number from a mutual friend and call him. Invite him out to a public place for a coffee and cake as a thank you for his being a gentleman. Take it from there.
-Frank B Kermit
www.frankadviceforwomen.com
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