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male
age
30-35,
*thz
writes:Hello guys,A small problem,it's like we talk on the phone at night and what she does is while talking to me on the phone she stays online on whatsapp chatting with her friends. I tell her to go offline but she doesn't. Telling me that she's talking about something important.I don't like that she talks or chats to her friends or whosoever while I'm onthe phone..Should I do something about it or go easy? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (8 June 2015):
 I agree with Wise, go out on dates.
OR make the phone calls short and sweet.. If she seems distracted tell her bye, I'll let you get back to your friends. If she IS interested in talking to you she will realize she can't do both.
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reader, MSA +, writes (7 June 2015):
 Are you in a Long Distance Relationship with this girl?
Do you both talk on the phone A LOT?
Is she a friend or girlfriend?
My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and we talk on the phone A LOT. We talk on the phone while driving to work, coming home from work, driving to here and there and meet up with friends, and we Facetime at the end of the day where we watch a movie together. During these times, if either one of us has to be online to check email or do research or reply to texts, we're totally OK with it.
I understand it may have upsetted you, but if it's a one time thing, then maybe she did have something important to discuss with her friend(s). Talk to her about it and try to come to a compromise about future calls.
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2015): How about visiting her, and going out on dates together?
When a lady is distracted while talking to you, she isn't taking you seriously. Maybe you're in the "friend-zone" with all the others.
If she isn't your girlfriend, don't expect her to treat you like her boyfriend. If you want to be, take her out on dates.
You do have a right to ask that she not accept calls and messages from other people while you're talking to her. My guess is that she doesn't really value your calls as much as you value calling her. Maybe she's just not that into you!
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