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writes: HiMy question is about a girl I have known for a while. She is or used to be very friendly and speak to me no problem. Today I seen her at a event and she blanked me! She hugged everyone else and chatted away but didn't even smile at me?I'm married which she knows so it's not a relationship or anything but what have I done wrong? I asked a close friend of hers after she left today and he told me she was upset by me last time I seen her. Something to do with me ignoring a E-mail she sent. She did ask me about it the other week and I told her I got it but didn't read it. How could she take offence as I was honestly busy that week. The content was just general about work. So why has she taken this so personal? I thought we had some kind of bond or connection but now I have been brushed off by some 20 year old! She's not a teenage so why is she acting like one over an E-mail! Or could there be another reason why she has wrote me off now? Reply to this Question
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reader, He_Na  +, writes (8 June 2015):
You need to clarify what kind of relationship you maintain with her..
Is she your colleague only? You are married? Then, why are you giving so much weight to her ignoring you...
To why she has ignore you..Its better you go and read that email and see whether it actually contains general work things..
If she is only your colleague i dont find any reason to why you should get upset with her behaviour.
Its up to you to ignore her ( she might be acting out of immaturity) or confront her.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (8 June 2015):
 She's in her 20s? You said "now I have been brushed off by some 20 year old"!
Do you work together? "The content was just general about work." Did you ever actually read the email in full? "Something to do with me ignoring a E-mail she sent. She did ask me about it the other week and I told her I got it but didn't read it."
You brushed her off, so she's brushing you off.
If you work together, and she sent you an email and you ignored it, then, well, you were rude and unprofessional.
If it's down to you not reading a spam email she sent trying to sell you something, well, then, don't worry about it and let it go.
Did you ever reply to that email? Did you read it? How old is she? It would be helpful if you could clarify your question.
And just one more question, why are you worried about her blanking you? If you are married and she's just being huffy about something inconsequential then what's the point of worrying about keeping her friendly toward you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2015): You know what she is thinking on this?
Nothing!
Do you honestly think a 20 year old girl is dwelling on the issue if a 40+ year old man likes her, or is ok with her?
Off course not!
Bare in mind you have the word of her friend not her of what was wrong.
Do you know if she has a lot going on just now at home? A boyfriend? Kids? Something on her mind?
Work to get done? Did u approach her to say hello?
No? Then she probably thinks there is no issue.
Stop over thinking it and speak to her next time you see her. Push it out your mind it's work ain't it? Leave it in the office and go and spend time with your wife you know the women who should have all your attention!
P.s from a 20 year old girl.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 June 2015):
 Since you are married why the FUSS on your behalf that she got offended? So what? Let the little girl throw a hissy fit and "blank" you....
She may NOT be a teenager, but she acted like one. Just let it go and ignore it.
She obviously think she is the center of the Universe and if she sends a e-mail people MUST react asap..
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