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Should I try to contact her or leave well enough alone?

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Question - (21 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 July 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, *WSTUD writes:

Hi, I hope you can help me with a slight dilema I have. Just over a week ago at work I had to have a medical with one of the occupational health assistants. The problem I have is that the OHA who saw me was very attractive and I could have been reading the signals completely wrong but I think she liked me too. The thing is, Im probably never going to see her again, unless she just happens to give me another medical in a few years, which is unlikely. I would like to ask her out but Im not sure if that would be wrong, because of the nature of her work and the fact that she has seen me as a patient, ( if thats the write word ).

Even if I did ask her out, Im not exactley sure how I would get in touch with her without having to contact the occupational health unit themselves, which could be embarrasing! Should I try and contact her in some way, or leave well alone?

Thanks in advance

Ben

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (21 July 2010):

You need to leave well alone, not for the reasons you think though. Medical staff aren't supposed to date patients at all, even if it was just once. It's seen as medically unethical and they can lose their jobs.

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