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writes: I have fallen for this girl who I am just starting to be friends with. I asked her out and she turned me down because she likes another guy and she only sees me as a friend. However I know she can do better then the other guy because he is a bit of a troublemaker. Do I try my hardest to get over her or go with what my heart says and try again in the future? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2005): to be honoust wiv u i wudnt have any of it but hopefully she can make her own mind up and you will actually not have to tell wots on ure mind send her sum flowers and a box of chocolates but please dont commit the goon crime of stalking it is actually illegal aned only goons do it and oh yea get a makeover and grab a lad
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2005): well hun i would just aware your "friend" that this lad is trouble and that she can do sooooo much better. just tell her how you feel, but dont stalk her. its not very nice. send her one bunch of flower(nice ones) with a card saying how much you like her and when she comes to her senses and shes been hurt by this other lad. you will come running with open arms and you will stick by her forever,k no matter what.
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reader, beenthere +, writes (9 November 2005):
be her friend. if she is interested in a troublemaker, she'll need friends who really care. maybe you could try again in the future but, if she ends up with someone else who makes her happy, be happy for her
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2005): I dont think you should try again. I'm a girl who has been pestered again and again by a guy and I ended up being forced into a relationship with him which made me unhappy. I think if she doesn't want to go out with you you can't make her. Try and move on hun, I'm sure you'll find another girl good for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2005): when i was younger my best friend was a bloke and unbeknown to me he had strong feelings for me but whatched me get involved with men that were, well no good for me. He could of stepped in and told me his feelings back then but because of how i saw him (as a brother type) it really wouldnt of changed that much (maybe made me slightly uncomfortable around him). Then once i had got the no hopers and wasters out of my system i realised there had been one man through out my life who had always been there for me, supoported me and looked after me, my best friend. So what im trying to say is that he didnt need to presure me into liking him and try and take over when other men were on the scene, all he had to do was wait (which he did) until i came to my senses and realise what i really wanted out of a man, which of course was him. So be a good friend and if she has any sense then she'll be like me and see that the man shes always wanted was right under her nose all this time!
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