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Underage... why do it???

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Question - (8 March 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

It's starting to become more common around my area, and it's starting to bug the hell out of me and get on my last nerve.

There is obviously relationships in my area, but the thing that is worrying me is the fact that teens (12-15) are bragging about having underage sex. The thing is, they aren't exactly discreet about it, and do it with people they have known about two weeks.

I don't know if they really do it, but the way they act like it's the best thing, really annoys me. I think, that people my age should be bragging about childhood stuff not something that could leave in a massive mess before their life has even started kicking in.

Does this annoy you? And is it common where you come from?

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A female reader, kissxmexagainx United States +, writes (9 March 2009):

kissxmexagainx agony auntI agree. it's a huge mistake that they will regret later in life. I'm proud of you for choosing to enjoy childhood instead =]

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2009):

In a classroom of 30 kids, there is usually about 25 kids feeling like the bad thing is the dominant social topic at the moment, 15 kids actually liking to talk about the bad thing being done, only about 10 of those 15 kids are really praising it & sounding very involved in it, and only about 2-4 of those 10 are actually doing it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009):

I am indifferent to it. Unless people are born with off/on switches that can switch their hormones off, this will never change. It's like corruption, you can't rid it, therefore, you just don't associate with it.

Underage sex is super common. You either have a fundamental society that adheres to one religion with strict teachings from birth or you segregate boys and girls until they reach age 16. Obviously, this is impossible unless we somehow make your society into something from 1982 or Equilibrium.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009):

Well im 13,

and in my school if any one has had sex from year 7-10 they would get known as scum and slutty and they would be hated and they would get bullied so noone really brags unless they want to be hated for the rest of there years.

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