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writes:Hey everyone,So recently my best friend's cousin has been showing some interest in me he even told her that he liked me and to be honest i really like him too. We're into lots of the same things hes really great but he lives a fair bit away and i know this is going to sound really nerdy but Im kinda nervous to text him but obviously i really want to and on top of that i really dont want to piss off my friend if she doesn't want me to date her cousin. We're not really the type of people who talk about feelings. So i dont know if she'll like it or not. So the questions are.How do i get over the nerves of texting him ?How do i know if my friends Ok with us or not?
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reader, person12345  +, writes (19 July 2010):
 Well first ask your best friend. You'll never know unless you ask! If she gives you the go ahead though, you should just go for it with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): Seriously just ask her, explain how you feel! How could she say no!! Anyway then just text him! You shouldn't be nervous!
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reader, SlightlyLost  +, writes (18 July 2010):
You poor thing it really sucks when you have what seems like a 3rd party in a what could be a relationship.
How do you get over your nerves? Just go for it, send a simple text like "Hello :)" or ask him a question like "Hi, I'm having an arugement with some friends, whats the best (insert band) song? What do you think?" that way you start up a conversation and he feels valued.
As for the second question you will have to just kinda introduce it into the conversation theoretically. But in the end it is your would be relationship, not hers. Hope that helped!
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