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writes:Me and my ex-boyfriend split up a year ago. We have both liked each other for the whole year since, and have almost acted as if we have been going out, but actually haven't. When we were barely talking to each other, I ended up very drunkenly sleeping with one of his closest friends. We weren't going out at the time, but it was still a very bad thing to do. I honestly am still completly in love with him, but it ended up happening again, when i was extremely drunk. We both want to go out with each other again, for some reason he still really likes me. He said he would go out with me again, but cannot get over the fact tat i did this with one of his closest friends. Is there any way I can get him back? Do you think that if I give it time he will eventually get over it? Thank you
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reader, woowoo83 +, writes (19 July 2010):
 ooh tough one, men and their pride. he is probably really embarrassed that you slept with one of his friends, and might not want to show weakness by taking you back.
if he really loves you and cares then i am sure time will prove this and he might ask you back out. but at the same time, don't put your life on hold for him. what if he meets someone else? you don't want to be left pining for him. i would ask him what you can do to help him get over it? ask him to be honest and try do your best to reassure him that it was a drunken mistake. good luck xx
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reader, johannabanana  +, writes (18 July 2010):
 Forever he will have the image of you and his best friend doing it. That is just how a mans mind works. But if you two end up together for a long time making each other happy eventually he will realize it was only one stupid drunk night. But one thing is for sure.... Keep your distance from his friend. You don't want him to become jealous.
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