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Should I tell this girl of my feelings or wait until she's older?

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Question - (19 November 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 November 2012)
A male India age 30-35, *mit thakur writes:

Hey guys,i realy want your opinions..i like a girl 4 years younger than me..shes 17.she had many male friends but never a boyfriend...she knows me very well..we had even traveled together and talked many times.and she showed signs that she likes me(nervousnes ,blush, smile ,laugh at my jokes) but it could be just her friendly nature .ryt?

The only option to find out this asking her .so friends help me.

I am afraid that shes not mature enough(shes just 17) that she will get scared. ...or maybe she had never seen me as her crush and she will never talk to me again as she now do....i dont want to do anything stupid now and regret later.i dont want to say "oh!! I should have waited"..but for how long then..i am also afraid that some other boy will come in her life if i wait too long.i dont want to lose her...

Help guys what should i do? just tel her everything and wish that she understands or wait for more time??

I would realy appreciate your help..thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2012):

How long have you known her? You need to tread carefully. You could drop hints if youre afraid of a negative response. You could tell her how cute she is, ask her when she feels would be the best time to have a boyfriend,etc.ask her to tell you honestly what she thinks of you. Observe carefully how she responds, these will be major clues to guide you whether you should ask her to be your gf or not. Being open also helps.hopefully you people are able to keep conversations going,able to laugh together and generally enjoy each others company. It would be awkward to start dating when youre not even comfortable with each other.

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