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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i think the feelings i am having for one of my friends are more than just a crush cause i cant stop thinkin bout her and i cant even sleep at night... we are almost 15 and i will next c her at christmas or before that.................. i want to tell her but i am afraid that i might ruin christmas for her by telling her about how i feel about her we both go to seperate schools but are in contact.........what should i do?? should i tell her?? and when?? we will be seeing alot of each other in the next three weeks. and another thing........i know that she still has feelings for her ex so its a bit complicatedany advice is welcome........thanks in advance
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reader, kenny  +, writes (20 December 2007):
 Instead of rushing in and asking her out, make a friend out of her, be nice to her, and be there for her if she needs you. Make your feelings for her know by way of flirtatious gestures, such as eye contact, light touches ect, make it so she wants to be with you. If anything is going to ever happen between the pair of you let it materialise slowly and naturally. Some of the best relationships stem from being freinds first, so be patient, give it time, and im sure it will happen for you.
Good luck
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