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Should I tell people my step-dad touches me inappropriately?

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Question - (1 September 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 2 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

when i was about eight years old my step father began touching me in rude ways. i was to young to understand so i didn't tell anyone he is still doing it should i tell people and do you think they will believe me?

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A female reader, Ah-ha United Kingdom +, writes (2 September 2008):

People will believe you and stop this from happening to you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008):

What your stepfather is doing to you is terrible.

Tell your mum. Don't let him abuse you anymore. Try and get her alone and talk to her in private or write her a letter like some of the other aunts suggested. Your mum should believe you. If you don't feel as though you can tell her tell your dad. Or a teacher at school.

They will believe you. There would be mo reason for you to make anything like that up.

Be strong. I know this will be hard for you. But he needs to be stopped.

Please let us know how it goes. Let us know you're ok. You can mail me if you like. I'm here if you need to talk.

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom +, writes (2 September 2008):

You deserve much better than this abuse.It might be hard explaining but no would should suffer in silence. When you are ready, tell an adult you trust, or write a letter to them. xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008):

Tell a school teacher you look you too or respect doll =)

Tell me how you gt on please

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A female reader, SugarCookie United States +, writes (2 September 2008):

Tell your mother. Get her alone and have a heart to heart with you. I dont believe any mother would believe a daughter would lie about this. Your mother will then make him move out and/or press charges.

If for whatever reason telling your mother fails (it shouldn't) go to someone at your school. They will help you for sure.

I hope this helps and as a girl who was molested when i was young it will take a long time to heal but doing so will make you a stronger better person. You can e-mail me if you have more questions.

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A female reader, miss-innocent Ireland +, writes (2 September 2008):

listen pet i know this is a huge deal and at the moment its worse because ur the only person who knows but by telling someone you can stop this horrible man and share the load do it immediately and if you dont think you can tell it to someone write it down in a letter and let them read it it will be much easier for you

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A female reader, babyyybre United States +, writes (2 September 2008):

yes you should definetly tell someone immediately

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008):

i think you should tell people. it will help cause someone has to believe you.

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