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writes:Should I tell my Wife I've been doing penis enlargement exercises?I was doing them a few years ago and stopped at her request. I finally decided that this is something I want, even if she doesn't want me to. I am small down there and she has had larger so I don't see what the big deal is. Growth is happening but it's slow. I would assume if her complaint is physical, she should adapt along with me. Isn't it said that if she loves me my Penis shouldn't matter to her? At least that's what us small men hear on here. I really hate sneaking behind her back but I'd like some slack on this. Should I tell her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2012): Just out of curiosity... what are the exercises?I'm just under 8 inches but I've always wanted to be over 8 so if these exercises work I can maybe be 8 and a half. And yes people it is just for my own sake, in case you're wondering lol
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (25 October 2012):
 Well I'm glad you talked to her and you are both happy.
may you continue many years of happiness together.
and doing it for yourself is fine...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 October 2012):
 People say all the time to women that if they want bigger boobs go for it, have implants!! Instead of telling them to LOVE the body they have....
So I can't see why it wouldn't be OK for you to work on your penis. Though I hope to goodness you aren't taking any kind of "enhancement" pills that can later on screw up your health. Or implants that can do the same.
Should you tell her, why not? And if she tells you I'M HAPPY with YOUR Mr. Happy - would you stop? Just because she's had bigger doesn't mean she's had better OR she WANTS bigger.
If this is something you want to do for you AND it's not putting your health at risk I say go for it, however... I don't really believe you can make your penis grow (unless it's an erection) but each to their own I guess.
For many men penis size is obviously their Achilles heal. Everyone wants to be above average, but that just isn't going to happen. In order to HAVE an average some will be above, some below. In my small experience, guys with smaller dicks put WAY more effort into sex, because they don't rely on size to do the magic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2012): The exercises do work, albeit very slowly, but they do work. I got my half inch back! I'm almost average now. I ended up talking to my wife last night, and it went better than I thought. She knew I was doing it, and was more supportive than I thought. She doesn't get it, but I gave her the comparison of going to the gym to get a better physique. She gave me her blessing as long as it doesn't interfere with family time, and I stop if she gets uncomfortable. Completely reasonable to me! I'm really not wanting to be "big" just average, so hopefully I'm happy before she wants me to stop.
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reader, Hennessy1989 +, writes (25 October 2012):
 Man I wish I was 6 feet tall instead of 5.8, but stretching my legs ain't gonna make me taller, I wish I was more handsome, not gonna happen, so I doubt there's some magic way to make your dick bigger, and your complaining about slipping out? With a bigger dick you can't even do some positions sometimes because its too uncomfortable for the girl
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reader, Hennessy1989 +, writes (24 October 2012):
This is ridiculous, she's probably telling you not to do it because she's happy with you the way you are, wake up and smell the coffee
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2012): I really have no idea why she asked me to stop before, I did gain 1/2 inch when I did them before. What I meant by " I am small and she has had larger" is just that. I have a small penis and she has had large penises, so why should she have an issue with an average one. I am not looking to get a huge dick, I'd be happy with average as I'm only 4 1/2". Sex can be frustrating when you slip out all the time or can't do certain positions. She says I'm perfect, and I do believe her to a point. This is something I'd like to do for me.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 October 2012):
 As long as these "exercises" don't require a spotter or a personal trainer I don't see why she should care one way or another. Why not ask her why it matters to her if you pursue your body building?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (24 October 2012):
 Total waste of time, but I don't think it's really a big deal. But seriously, it's a complete waste of time. If these guys with bigger penises were actually better, she'd be with them, not with you. If giant penises mattered to women, it would be a criteria on dating sites. Hair color, eye color, penis size, height, etc...
I am really not sure where men got these weird ideas about women loving large penises. The only benefit I can see is that it gives you something to be proud of in the locker room because all the other guys have the same misguided notion that women love large penises. It's certainly not better for sex.
The average woman is 6-7" in length. Anything past that hits the cervix and hurts and limits sex positions. Only the first 3" really have any sensitivity. The insides of our vaginas evolved for less pain during childbirth, not more pleasure during sex. That means there's very little happening there during sex. Women's pleasure comes from the clitoris, even women who orgasm from penetration. Penises have very little to do with female pleasure. I've never heard of a woman ecstatic about her man's giant penis, but have heard many women ecstatic about the frequency her partner will go down on her.
Stop caring so much about your penis size, because I guarantee you, you're the only one who does care. And I wouldn't tell your wife, she will probably find it a major turn off.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 October 2012):
If they truly worked she would notice.
You were doing them and you stopped because she asked you to stop. why do you think that is?
Now you are doing what YOU want because YOU want it (and think it necessary)
"I am small down there and she has had larger so I don't see what the big deal is" UMMM.. this statement makes no sense to me. I'm so very confused...
Listen I've had so many men that your head could spin. small, large, thick, thin, Women even...
Penis size is only important to MEN... not to most women.
you then say "I would assume if her complaint is physical she should adapt along with me" WHAT complaint is your wife having?
does she complain that your penis is too small?
my husband is on the small side of average... with a low sex drive.. BFD... i did not marry a penis. I married a man. A penis does not love me. A penis does not satisfy me. Never has never will. A tongue on the other hand... perfection with a talented person... male or female.
So is she complaining that you are too small?
IF so why in the world would she tell you not to do these "exercises"....
what do you think will happen if you tell her?
if my man came to me and said "i'm doing these exercises that are supposed to enlarge my penis and it's for YOU" I would tell him to stop. I don't want him to do them for me.
IF he wants to do them and waste his time FOR HIM, I would support him (and laugh about it behind his back)
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