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*ongaddict15
writes:Im just a typical 15 years old teen age female student, I saw a post of releaseme25 and were exactly the same, about the teacher feeling thing.The only different are im not in college and i didn’t wrote my teacher a letter 3 times. I only wrote her one time and she automatically told to another teacher what i feel about her. When the were talking to me, I didn’t answered there questions because i was soo shy back then.. It was last year since I realized that I love her, my feelings for her keeps on coming back even now. That’s why im confuse because i dont want to feel uncomfortable whenever she’s around. I don’t know if she still remember about my feelings towards her. The 1st impression i thought of her that shes strict but when the day comes she was kind to me and every time we saw each other she asked me how am i doing and that kind of stuff. And in a class there was a time i was kind of late, but then she didn’t marked me as late.Then now.. this year im in year 10 we don’t have her as a PG teacher but last week we had her as a reliever because our adviser was away.Then i was sitting in front uncomfortably, then she came up to me and made me do the attendance then she even asked for my pen to use. Then i really felt uncomfortable because she was sitting near in front of me, then we had answered a sheet then i asked her what is gnome (which i don’t know back then). Then she immediately told me the correct answer which i didn’t ask for it. Then she was like asking me if i know pixie, elf and etc..i said i don’t know pixie is then she searched the photo of a pixie and showed it to me. She was really kind to me.Now im confused and she’s still single, not that i want us to be in a relationship.Do you think i should tell her what i feel about her again? that it came back?And also i dreamed about her last night
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009): You need to stop this behavior now. She has done the right thing, and will need to alert other higher level staff if you continue. What you're proposing is highly illegal, and could cost her both her job and prison time. Her life would be ruined. You have a school girl crush on her, and need to understand that this is a fantasy, and you need to KEEP HER OUT IF IT.
If you continue, she's going to be forced to deal with this publicly- teachers understand that these things happen, and are trained to respond. So far, you've avoided humiliation, but you're pressing your luck.
You need to graduation, move and THEN if your "so sure", contact her... but by then you'll be far over this crush.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 November 2009):
I'm really sorry, but you're reading far too much into this. Apart from anyting else, it's illegal for a teacher to have a relationship with a student, and your teacher could go to prison if she did. She told someone else how you feel for her own protection, and she's just being kind to you because she's your teacher that's it. I'm afraid you'll just have to enjoy your crush on her, because it can't go further. So say nothing, because it will just make it worse for your both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009): nope you are mistaking kindness for something more. It sounds like its time for you to meet someone ok.
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