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writes: hey.One time i went to a pub/club without my girlfriend, and if anyone knows once you have a girlfriend girls suddenly want to talk to you, i told them all to leave me alone as i was not interested, throughout the night i kept drinking and went home and told my girlfriend that this one girl kept coming up to me. My girlfriend told her off but she then told my griflriend that i was hitting on her but my memory says different. i thought she was just trying to flip things being a bitch, but the next week my mates were telling me how drunk i was and i attempted to beg the bouncers to be let back in the venue once i got kicked out, and about the other stupid things i was doing. This rocks my confidence because if i csnt remeber those things maybe i did later apporach this girl and say certain things, its been 3 months since it happened should i tell my girlferiend i dont remember what happened that night or just leave it, keeping in mind the other girl could be lieing or that it could be true and my girlfriend could find this out one day maybe bumping into this girl and that would hurt her the most. Im in a pickle. Help!
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (1 July 2010):
 If you don't remember, you don't remember I guess, and your gf has probably done her independent verification (I know I would have) by asking your friends. If it's still an issue between the two of you, tell her that you don't recall anything and make a resolution to drink less.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010): hi this is my question.
what im worried about most is if it could be true, i have a mate who swears he was right next to me when i told her to leave me alone and others saying they didnt see me say anything to her but when my girlfriend told her off this other girl had extreme confidence with having her say and got on the offensive. i dont want to make my girlfriend look like a idiot for beilving me or being with me and i dont want to look like im deceiving her i need more opinions please. keep in mind i love my girlfriend so much and this might be not true. ps. one of that girls friends yelled out something to my gf implieing i did it. what do i do?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (1 July 2010):
 Leave it. Don't bother yourself with it. You don't remember, and it was 3 months ago, there is no evidence you did anything, after all you were kicked out of the club and obviously under observation. If you had done anything your friends would have told you.
Don't drink that much. You don't want to end up doing something stupid because of alcohol. Know your limits. Being drunk is never an excuse.
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