Am I right to feel upset about what my girlfriend did when we were still broken up?

A male age 36-40, *ceman2525 writes:

I really need some advice here. I broke up with my ex about a year ago. We have kept in contact tho and even sometimes still had sex. We both agreed that we would stay friends and see what happened in the future. I even told her i didnt have anymore "spark" towards her but wanted to stay friends and see what happened. She started being friends with this guy at work and she went over his house swimming. She said they were strictly friends but when she went to leave he made a move on her and they started making out. She just went along with it. They then started to have sex but after a minute or so she said she stopped him and said she couldnt do it and it was a big mistake. She left his house and hasnt spoken to him since. That was about a month ago. We now just got back together but i feel upset about it kinda like she went behind my back. Because me and here were still "talking" as friends and sometimes having sex when they happend with the guy at work. We were not together tho. Am i being stupid or what?

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