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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, my name is Janie and I've been seeing this amazing guy and we really got along and his family get on well with me, his sister's and I are practically best friends but last week he said he wants to break up and accused me of cheating! To be honest I think he now knows I didn't cheat and just needed an excuse to break up with me. I've been so upset and I cry every time I pack up his things or look at our pictures and I've been texting and ringing him constantly. I think I'm pushing him away even more. About two days ago he said he wanted to get back with me but when I sent my reply he said he had changed his mind because he doesn't think he deserves me which is such a lie. He now says that he is getting with a girl that I do not get along with at all so he knows the problem is she is also going out with one of my closest friends as well as aaron(my ex)! Should I tell my friend about his girlfriend or wait and see what happens? even through everything I still love aaron and want him back desperatly, please help me I'm so confused and need some guidance of someone I can trust!! thank you so much xxx
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (7 March 2009):
 I think you're fried deserves to know, but you would need to be very tactful about how you tell him, especially since it will make you look like you are just trying to get back at your ex.
If she for sure is playing your friend, then let him know. If they were on the rocks to begin with and she is ready to break up with him, then I say let it go and watch it explode.
You just don't want him to be with another girl because he has lead you to believe that there is a possibility that he will come back to you. He is keeping you around as a safety net. Don't let him. Stop calling him, and just be with yourself and your close friends for the next few weeks, and see what that does to his attitude. If he doesn't pick up the phone to call you, then you know where he stands. You're better off. Be strong!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): thankyou for your advice your probably right i will leave them to work thisout themselves but to be honest i dont want aaron with any other girl but me xxxx
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (7 March 2009):
 Leave them to make their own mistakes, if you interfere now Aaron will assume you are doing it to cause trouble between them.
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