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*halil931
writes: Me and my cousin liked each other since we were at least 10, but we never did anything. but now we are older and we still know that we like each other but sometimes i resist cause i know we are third cousins but i still have feelings for her should i just stop resisting and tell her how i feel?
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reader, Hopeful Romantic +, writes (1 October 2008):
No, that is your cousin! Find someone else that is not related to you to start crushing on & this should help your feelings toward your cousin cease.
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reader, islandgal441 +, writes (1 October 2008):
Seriously i dont think thats a good idea, if you told your friends or if anyone found out that you dated/hooked up with your cousin, that wouldnt really go very well. you are still sort of young and maybe that physically attraction will go away when you find someone else you're attracted to, so further down the line this could be something you can sit and joke about later on that you had a crush on your cousin when you were younger
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008): Since you're only 13-15, I would say if you're family doesn't mind, then go ahead.
Just remember, there are other girls - at school, etc. I know you said you have liked her since you were 10, but you should also consider that there are other girls too.
Keep that in mind, especially if your family would consider you dating her a big deal, you know?
Hope this helps!
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