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writes:Recently when out and quite drunk I got talking to this guy who was really dead on. He knew I had a boyfriend and he had a girlfriend. I was chatting to him for ages about both our partners and lots of other things. But as the alcohol started flowing I started to feel very attracted to him, so much so that I actually came out and said to him that I had to move away before I did something. At the time I knew in my heart I wouldn't cheat and there is no underlaying reason for feeling this way - Me and my partner are 100% happy, although he is the very protective / jealous type. Should I tell him I felt this way? I'll just stress that the sober me would not act like this and wouldnt even THINK of cheating on my boy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): If you had been drunk and then went to bed with this guy than that would have been very serious and something that you would need to discuss very seriously with your boyfriend. However, you didn't do anything wrong. I wouldn't even really consider it flirting. Forget about it. If he hears about it then you will have to tell him that nothing happened and you were completely under control, at least as far as anything serious happening.
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (16 June 2008):
 No dont tell him, it was harmless flirting and even in your drunken state you realised you had to move away, that is also why you voiced it aloud, simply because you were drunk. It doesnt mean anything so let it lie x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (16 June 2008):
You flirted and felt an attraction. You did this because you were DRUNK! It didn't mean anything.
You do stupid things when you are drunk. Are you going to sit him down and tell him you may not have been in tune on the Kareoke? That's another stupid thing that alcohol makes you do.
Don't tell your boyfriend.
Learn from it, enjoy the fact you met some one and clicked with them, and don't drink as much next time.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (16 June 2008):
 Hi,
why on earth would you even consider telling your boyfriend?
You state he is a jealous/protective type so first I would like to scale down your 100% happy quote - I'm sure you are not happy when he is accusing you of flirting with other men ( sorry dont mean to be rude but I have very little time for jealous men - they tend to be insecure controlling jerks)
Anyway, telling him will only lead to more accusations, you already demonstrated you have the control to stay faithful so why feed his jealous monster ?
You are crazy if you do - Crazy!
good luck
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