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anonymous
writes:I watch porn and i just want to know is it okay??My boyfriend dosnt know. should i tell him. I have been masterbating for ages and is it wrong still my bf dosnt know about this. Should i wait a bit longer to tell him any of this stuff let him grow on it Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2010): I think he would be Ultra Turned on if you tell him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): Honestly you should cut back on the porn it objectifies people and disconnects you from real human relationships.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): You definitely shouldn't tell him. There is no reason why he should know that. It is your private thing and for now it should stay that way. Because, you are very young, and if you are smart, you know that chances are you won't be with him for the rest of your life. You might have a few wonderful years together, but when you split up, he might use that information against you. Later, when you are much, much older, and in a serious, mature relationship, you can tell your boyfriend you like porn and you can even watch it together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): Hey, thanks guys! YOu have really helped
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reader, Major Stallard +, writes (12 August 2010):
Watching porn is very normal by both male and female, telling could be fun, but bad circumstances can occur, you may both want to watch it together and then feel experimental. At your age you are not ready to experiment. (But who am i to judge?)
Let the relationship grow, and just aslong as you understand what your sexual preferences are, and you will many years to come know what you like.
But porn is acting, not LOVE. do not get it confused, porn can be also addicted, and can ruin you sex drive/relationships as you feel the urge to have 'sex' rather than the urge to make love etc.......So dont do it for the sake of that!
Wait a little longer until both old enough to start experimenting, and invite the porn into the relationship.........With careful protection....important!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): I wouldn't. you're too young to.
And porn is perfectly fine. As many females use it as males I am sure. :)
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (12 August 2010):
 I'd also wait. It is likely something he has done or does himself, so sharing that could be a lot of fun. Too much fun. And like White swan said, could definitely lead to pregnancy.
Personally, I have no problems with porn. If you like it, then more power to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): Don't let watching porn give you the wrong idea about what real sex between loving individuals is like. Professional porn is acting, and even amateur porn can be misleading. Personally, I think you are too young for it. I actually think a lot of very young people are watching too much porn and that it is warping their view of real relationships. I say give it up and don't tell your boyfriend.
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