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writes:Earlier on today me and my boyfriend were speaking on msn when I went to get dinner and he usually puts "I love you, so, so much :D xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx" but instead he just put "kk, talk ltr xxxx" - I know I might be overreacting but I was shocked, so I just signed off. I am being melodramatic but he really upset me, I went back on and asked if he was okay and he said he was. Should I tell him that what he said upset me or should I just carry on like normal, hoping it was just a misunderstanding or maybe he was busy. He seemed completely fine earlier when we spoke on the phone. But I love him so much and I would never want to lose him, if I were to confront him, would it end our relationship? What should I do? Thank you soooo much. I love him a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): Haa. Its funny because I have the same problem. He usually says "I love you soo much hurry up I miss you already!" and other times he's like "alright, bye" soo its kind of wacky but I have to admit that I do that too. And sometimes its just cause maybe someone at my house is bothering me or is giving me a hard time.. So I don't feel like texting all that ya know so I think you should let it go.. =) hope I helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay so I decided to just tell him straight away (Well, after he got back from a shower haha) and turns out he fell over and couldnt say it straight away. jee we are drama queens but I managed to find out that because he had an ex who made him feel terrible, I didn't want to do that to me. Thankyou so much, if it wasn't for the answers I wouldn't have done it =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): Carry on as normal.
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (7 April 2009):
 oh we girls are such drama queens lol
i tend to get all melodramatic for small things too and my boyfriend wouldnt even know the reason and keeps wondering..
but now i am out of that phase if anything bothers me i would tell him straight away rather than overreacting,
be careful dont over react u may scare him away hun.
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reader, justme..x +, writes (7 April 2009):
 Hi :)
i really wouldn't worry about it. I don't think it's a sign he's going off you or anything. He probably has no idea that it bothers you. Especially since there've been no other signs, I would just forget it.
You obviously love him a lot, and if you're really worried about it then just ask him. If you're close you can be straight with him.
It's up to you, but if you're worrying then ask, if you're all right, then seriously just forget it, I honestly don't think it means much :) x
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reader, MissIndependent19  +, writes (7 April 2009):
hun...
To make a relationship work it is all about communicating. You don't want to hold it inside until 1 day you just might explode on him. If he truly loves you he will be glad that your brought it up because he wants to make you happy. You should always tell him how you feel good and bad. That is the only way it will ever work. !
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