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writes:I'm kinda seeing this guy on and off for a year. We're not official thagether, but it feels like we are. Recently though we've started to drift apart. We've had a lot of fights this past year, and I think it has something to do with that. But a few weeks ago he text me and said he wanted to try and fix it and become close again. This lasted a while, but we barely talk again :( should I tell him I miss how we used to be, or would thus make me sound like and absolute winge ? Or should I just leave things the way they are ? please leave me an answer and Thanks in advance :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (14 February 2012):
 If you are fighting a lot and are on and off a lot are you sure you want to patch it up?
I would sit down with him and figure out if it's worth trying to fix... sounds to me like you are both beating a dead horse and it's time to let it go...
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (14 February 2012):
 You definitely should talk to him, otherwise it will end up with you breaking up if you carry on like this. Explain how you feel, what you want to change, and then how you are going to do it.
There is no point in saying 'I miss how we used to be' because you are not providing a solution. Think of ways to get back to how you used to be, think of how things were different back then and what you need to do to get that back. Dont just moan about not being happy - be constructive and think of ways to change things.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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