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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i'm pretty sure that i have strong feelings for my best guy friend. he is all i think about and when i'm not with him, i want to be with him. i have no idea how to tell him, because he's always playing games with me. when he found out i was with a guy one night, he got jealous and ignored me for a while after. lately it feels like he's been even more hot and cold with me, and sometimes i think he honestly does like me but other times i can't help but wonder if he just likes the attention. what should i do? i feel like if i tell him outright, things will get really awkward if he hasn't felt the same way about me this whole time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2011): Hiya i had the same problem a while ago and was really scared to tell this guy how i felt but after using this advice i'm about to give to you it worked perfectly and we've now been together for several months and we're very happy! Okay, so the best thing to do is go up to this guy and casually in conversation mention you and some mates (make sure these are mutal friends who are informed you like this guy and won't embarrase you) are going out for a meal (never the cinema!!) or some party, the park etc and ask if he'd like to come. By having mutual friends it won't be awquard and unless he has a reasonable excuse if he likes or is interested in you too he should jump at the chance! If however, he uses a lame excuse or says no - then ithink you have your answer. Good luck!
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