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writes:My boyfriend passed away almost 4 months ago and since then I have not really felt like moving on up until about a month ago. I told a guy in my school that I have a crush on him. I'm a bit scared to start a relationship now becuase I'm moving in December. I can't seem to stop thinking about a guy I dated like 2 years ago. He was amazing but after 7 months in a long distance relationship, we decided that things just weren't meant to be until we were able to be closer. We drifted apart while I was with my previous boyfriend (the one that passed away). I need serious help! I don't know if he's dating anyone but I would love to be with him again... And I have a feelig it would work because I am moving closer to him soon... Should I tell him how I feel or what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2009): I think that you are moving a little to quickly, probably trying to get thoes feelings that your boyfriend,who passed away, gave you. I felt the same way when it happened to me.You should tell the guy how you feel and be honest with him, but i think you should take things slow for awile and you can tell him that as well. Take your time no need to rush things,everything will turn out great:)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 October 2009):
I think you need to give yourself more time to grieve. It sounds like you're still very upset (which is understandable), and might be trying to cling to the first feelings you have. By all means try speaking to him, but take your time so you're sure of everything. Best wishes.
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