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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi...I've got a problem and was hoping that maybe you guys could help me... Basically I'm totally in love with the one person I don't think I can ever actually be with. This person is female also and about 10 years older than me. She's the first person (male/female) that I've ever had such real feelings for - she's on my mind 24/7. It's frustrating the way she behaves because she gives such mixed signals all the time. I don't know if she is lesbian or not - she's not and hasn't been in any relationships in at least 4 years... We get along together so well, and I genuinely care for her, but it's 3 years of not knowing that is really getting me down. That's why I haven't the courage to tell her, because I don't wanna lose her as a mate. It's better to be mates than nothing I reckon??She always seems pleased to see me and has in the past confided in me - so she trusts me. I might destroy that trust if I tell her how I feel, but another part of me feels that I'm letting my life pass me by, and hanging on the thought of a "maybe".I'm so lost and confused, and I would really appreciate any advice.Many Thanks xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007): If you want to tell her/feel like you are going to tell her, be ready to lose a friend. Whether this person is a male or a female, usually telling the person who is your friend that your feelings go deeper, creates a weirdness of some sort.
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