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Should I tell her that I love her? Does what she said mean she doesn't love me?

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Question - (6 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 March 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So my girl and i have been goin out for about two weeks. I love her to death but still havnt told her i like her. But just today we were playing truth or dare on her little sisters ipod and one of the questions were have you ever been in love and she said no. So that kinda made me think tonight. So if i do tell her i love her do you think she'll say it back? And if so how do i tell her that'll make her feel like the most special girl in the world.

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A female reader, kristianna United States +, writes (7 March 2010):

imma girl and i have guys tellin me like 2 days after meeting me that they love me i find it strange and when your in a relationship itsz good to take things slow because when you go to fast things get too boring after awhile. I would say wait for your 1 month anniversary and hold around her waist and look into her eyes and say ily and if she doesnt say it back shez a bitch..but if she does kiss her ..=] i hope i helped

PEACE&LOVE ---CHRISTIANNA

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2010):

It's only been two weeks! Love truly develops over time. She might be shy of saying it, or might be unsure of what she's feeling since it's so soon. Spend more time getting to know her, since it's only been two weeks, and don;t say you love her yet.

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A male reader, hypno1dr United States +, writes (6 March 2010):

2 weeks into the relationship and your wondering if its too soon to tell her you love her. Personally I wouldn't rush to tell her, since I have done that when i thought i was in love and it made the girl go running from the relationship. I would give it more time, have some fun, and don't get too serious yet, there is plenty of time for love. Right now it sounds like you like her a lot or what adults would call infatuated. It feels like love, because we like the feelings we feel, but love takes a bit longer. Plus the sex drive tells us to rush and say we are in love, when its just infatuation.

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