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writes:I have been good friends with a girl for a quite a while now. When we met, I wanted to take our relationship farther, but just then she started dating my good friend. I don't think she got a lot out the relationship, and they recently broke up. Now, she is interested in my best friend (a different one), but he is already in a good relationship with somebody else. But the person he is with is going to college in about a month, and they have decided they will seperate then. I don't want to push things and make it awkward, so should I just leave things be? I want her to be happy, but it would kill me to see her with my best friend. I feel like I've made it somewhat clear I like her, what should I do??
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reader, love-him  +, writes (11 July 2007):
 Hi babe i think you should tell her, just to let her know your feelings, then see how it goes. I hope i helped. Mail me if you would like to talk x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007): ok this is coming from a girl if i was her i would want you to tell me she prob likes you but is just scared to tell u and what she is doin is her way of hiding her feelings
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (11 July 2007):
 Seems to me that you'd be taking a lot of chances. If she is interested in this second best friend, maybe she will prefer him over you. I'm afraid that she sees you as a friend only. If she had feelings for you, she would have let you know. You're available, and your second best friend ISN'T yet.
Just as a comment, friendship that becomes love is very easily misread. Some people might mistake displays of love for signs of friendship, and vice versa. If you want this girl, you need to give a clear indication of love. Being nice just isn't enough of a hint.
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