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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi.i need help on this.i have known a girl for some time now,i like her and i think she likes me too.i don't want to ask her out because i feel i am not ready yet for a date.should i tell her how i feel in order to clear my thoughts or i should just pretend i never liked her since i do not want an affair now?
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reader, uncle bob  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 Ask yourself, if the situation where reversed, how would "I", want to be treated?
If you don't know how to tell her you like her, try this.
When she speaks, truly listen to what she has to say,
and respond positively to what she says.
When she looks at you, smile and look into her eyes, don't act shy and look away.
Ask her how her day's been.
Tell her she looks nice today, or you like what she's wearing.
Say to her, "Hey, I'm going for a coffee/pop,
(or whatever), would like to join me". If she says no, then tell her you'll give her a "rain check".
(some other time then) Then go about your day.
Just treat her the way to want to be treated.
Believe me, EVERYTHING, will fall into place!
What ever you do,
"DO NOT PRETEND THAT YOU DON'T LIKE HER"!
I guarantee, THAT "WILL", RUIN EVERYTHING!
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