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Should I take this personally? He seemed fine with other people.

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Question - (24 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 October 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey :)

About a month ago my friend found out that one of his classmates died, and i've been there for him ever since it happened. I was there when he found out and I did my best to comfort him, I listened to him and gave him advice.. I basicaly was a shoulder to cry on.

But recently hes been rather distant with me and we've barely talked at all.. I've tried starting the conversations to break the ice, but he just gives me short answers and seems to avoid talking to me.

I don't think I said or did anything wrong to him, I mean i've always been there for him when ever he had a problem or needed advice, but it seems like he doesn't want anything to do with me now. I can totaly understand if its part of a grieving process, but from what i've seen and heard hes perfectly fine with other people. He seems almost normal around them.. but seems gives me the cold shoulder.

Should I be taking this personaly, or is it something else?

Any advice will be greatly appreciated :)

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (17 October 2011):

aunt honesty agony aunt......

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