I like him, but does he really like me, and what should I do next?

A female age 41-50, *akeart78 writes:

So here is my dilemma...I know some of you ladies have seen this before. I have a great guy friend who I met a year ago. I fell for him right away, but I kept my distance because of a girlfriend that lives out of state. He calls her that, but I am pretty sure it is a F*** Buddy. I have never met her, nor do I want to. He has a stressful job, alot of hours so I dont get to see him much. When we do meet for breakfast or coffee, he lights up. He hugs me and kisses me on the cheek and the lips. Quick kisses on the lips, but multiple times in a row. Its always like that. He's very caring, sweet, and I am drawn to him, but I honestly do not know if he likes me just as a friend and this is the way he acts all the time, or if he realllly likes me. He mentioned a few times how he never knows when a girl likes him. I fear that was my "in" and I missed it. Trying to see him on his days off his tough. He loves being by himself because he is so independent, so that frustrates me - I feel like if he really wanted to see me, he would be with me already. UGGGHHH. Do I talk to him and be blunt about him flirting with me? Do I flirt back more aggressively and see what he says? I dont wish to lose him as a friend...Need advice!!

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