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writes:Hello all at cupidIm writing this on behalf of my freind And to honest with you all i dont actually no why she did it in the first place but she wont listen to me so hoping seeing other peoples comments will help her Anyway a couple of months bk my m8 got a random txt from this guy and they carried on talking, anyway they meet up and etc things happened, And to be honest even tho she says she wasnt that keen i think she did really like himAnyway one day i think she was with him and he got a txt from this girl, and my m8 put 2 and 2 together and said do u have a gf, he apparently said no Anyway as my m8 said she started txting this guy from another number to find out if she did have a gf And as fair as i make out he found out and called her crazy and stoped talking to her, But this is where my m8 goes wrong she every now and then texts him saying thing and most of the time he replys whos this and then a few days later texts her again (I DO BELIVE HE KNOWS WHO SHE IS STILL FROM THE TEXTS I HAVE SEEN)but then she pranks him to hear his voice and drives around his house most days to see if hes in and wants to knock but wont do it Ive tried telling her that by her doing this is wrong and he wound never like her if he found her doing it And she should never have done the phone thing anyway and belive him I no she thinks about him all the time but i cant help herYes i would lv 2 c her happy and she has not texted him 4 two weeks thats what she does then she will send a random text I do no from a time she drove past she say him holding hands with this girl, then another she seen him walking on his own Pleeeeeeese help me on this one I need her to see sence Thank you all Sammy
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): what she is doing is a compulsion. She has a form of OCD. It's very unhealthy but hard to break. She's convenced herself that she need the communication with this man. People do this often when they are dumped. It horrible because this man is clearly leading her on sending her mixed signals. The only way to break it is for her to not make any communication with him. I read up on it in a artical from a book called " Why i shouldn't call him". I was going through a rough break up and was looking for advice at the time. My ex was toying with me too. Luckily I like breaking cycles. it will be easier for her with time. Pleased to say I'm in a healthy relationship with a great guy now. There are too many good guys to be wasting your time on a dog.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): Well she is enjoying some obsessive love and if she isn't careful this can really take hold on her life.I have heard that a lot of people in their 20's sort of stalk their boyfriends and girlfriends, but it isn't going to win her any prizes with him.The worst part is she is just wasting her emotional energy on him.Personally, I think she may suffer from an anxiety disorder or even mild depression. I recommend that she make an appointment with her doctor to discuss these obsessive thoughts and how she feels, her doctor will know the right questions to ask her and if he feels it will help he will prescribe her some medication, she could also have some OCD, which also can be treated with drugs and therapy.She doesn't sound like she is getting into trouble, yet, but it is just kind of loopy behavior for her to do that.
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