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30-35,
*eila1990
writes:After he proposed to me last Christmas( We've in distance relationship for 2 years)I moved and transferred college from California to a small town in Ohio to be with him. We got an apartment together( the lease was on his name) I got so excited for having my fairytale wedding!!! I bought a huge sectional couch , bed , kitchen table, dishes. It cost me all 3000$. A couple weeks later, He started treating me bad.Every time he get angry , he start telling me bad and mean words. He yelled at me and threaten to take keep all my furniture and make me out . He even started sending dirty text to girls. I couldn't live anymore with him , so I moved back to CA. However, before I leave his apartment , I cut the couch the Mattress and I throw everything I bought in the garbage ( I know it is crazy but it I didn't want him to use it) After , I left Ohio, he got angry that I cut the couch , he got everything I through out from the garbage , he even fix the couch and the bed. he is a mama's boy. His mother sent me mean texts ( I did nothing bad to her , I always respected her) he talked bad shiit about me to his friends. It hurt me so much because I loved him so much. Now he wanna get back with me , I still love him so much but IM worried to get hurt and I dnt wanna have have a long distance relationship again. I wish he could move and live with me in CA , treat me good and make me feel special. I feel so sad and alone now .I never been hurt so much in my life and i don't know what to do :(
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (20 August 2012):
 No dont get back together with him.
I know you love him but love is when someone is good to you back too.
He cant be trusted (he sent texts to those other girls) and he threatened you with many things. He has hurt you way beyond necessary.
He doesnt make you happy but sad!
dont put yourself in a horrible situation again; move on and make a life happy! You deserve it.
Goodluck.
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