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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Sorry in advance if this is long. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 months now and its going well, I love spending time with him and can easily see myself falling for him.The trouble is, i'm really insecure about his ex. He broke up with her in April after an 8 month relationship, because she left him for another guy. He loved her and he was completely heartbroken. I'm his first proper girlfriend since then.I still have doubts that hes over her though, as he sometimes still refers to her as 'my girlfriend', still texts her a lot (often when hes with me) and, as far as I know, has never told her he has a new girlfriend, even though I know shes asked. She is also still his top friend on bebo, and his relationship status still says 'single' even though hes with me. I've seen her bebo profile, and it makes me feel crap because in my opinion she so much prettier than me, I feel like no wonder hes not over her. I havent bothered to add him on bebo because of it all. He still has loads of photos of them together, kissing and stuff on his old phone (though hes never taken any with me) and he talks about her quite a bit, and even though he often says he hates her for what she did, i'm not convinced. He also asks me about my ex (who I was with for 4 months) quite a lot, as if he thinks I should still have feelings for him or something. But as far as i'm concerned, hes no longer part of my life and doesnt need to be.I've become really attatched to him, hes the first guy i've ever had sex with and hes a really great boyfriend in most areas: smart, funny, sweet etc. Am I just being paranoid? I want to stop worrying about her so much.
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