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writes:ever since I've gotten my feelings hurt awhile back, I have not been worrying about a relationship. I just want to have fun. I have been seeing this guy for a couple of months, and we meet up and have sex, that is all I really want from him, and he knows this. but he is always saying things like he can't trust me to be in a relationship, and that he likes being around me. Is he just trying to play games, because I'm certainly not playing games he knows that I want sex, and i'm sure he has no problem getting it either, so why not just take the situation as is. I'm thinking about just finding someone else who is cool with the situaiton as is. anyway my question is should I stop having this friends with benefits situation, or is it ok, as long as I am able to deal with it??
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reader, omega1234  +, writes (6 September 2009):
I think you should draw the line and make it clear with your fwb about what you both had previously agreed to. It often happens that one of pair in a casual relationship starts to develop feelings for the other..sometimes jealousy outbursts.. and this i'm afraid does complicate things.. It seems to be he's trying to point that he's already considering you for a relationship but he doesn't know how to put it or fear about your reaction. IMO get things clear with him, and if he doesn't agree to your terms, well i guess it's time to move on..
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